Two Movies and One Small Act of Kindness

23 08 2013

The Butler
I just saw the movie “The Butler,” an excellent movie, with a star-studded cast and Oscar-worthy performances. I appreciated how they told the civil rights story through the real life of one man from his impoverished youth, through the service industry ranks, to becoming butler for eight presidents in the White House.

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Creative Intermission: There’s a powerful scene when the butler’s son becomes an early Freedom Rider and is assaulted as he participates in a sit-in at an all-white section of a lunch counter in the 60’s segregated south. This scene is cut with the staff at a formal White House dinner preparing and serving the meal. This powerful juxtaposing of these two different events visually speaks volumes.

The movie made apparent how far we have come in this battle for equal rights. I know there is still work to be done and there may always be racism and injustice in the world, but “The Butler” gave me hope that we are moving in the right direction.

I work in a large office building; there are around 100 people who work in this space. There is one woman, Deborah, whose job it is to keep the workplace clean. I thought of her in the scenes when the butler was learning his trade and learned to be invisible. Deborah has that same invisible ability. She stealthily slips in to empty our trashcans and dust and vacuum, while we work. She doesn’t distract us from our jobs and heads rarely look up from computers when she slips in.

The Black Stallion
It was a rare conversation with Deborah and my office-mates, when we learned that she loves to fish and ride horses. This led to a conversation about movies about horses. We asked her if she had ever seen “The Black Stallion.” This movie came out decades ago and was produced by Francis Ford Coppola. It’s is a stunningly beautiful film.

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Creative Intermission:  A young boy and the wild horse are stranded on a deserted island. The scene that has stayed with me since this movie premiered in 1979 is shot from underwater as boy and horse learn to trust each other. You see the horse’s four legs and the boy’s two legs as they play in the surf. As time goes by, you no longer see the legs of the boy, you know he is now atop his companion, the black stallion. They have come to trust each other.

Deborah was excited to learn of this movie and was ready to run out and buy it. We told her it was an old movie and that she’d have to find it online. What became slowly apparent to me is that she doesn’t have a computer and buying something online is a foreign concept. Shortly after the conversation with Deborah, I read my friend, Lisa Froman of Tao Flashes blog post on doing random acts of kindness.  So I went online and ordered this movie and gave it to Deborah.

This simple act opened a door that allowed us to see each other. I was able to thank her for her hard work and she now saw me too. I’m now someone she has a small connection with, not just some woman with her head buried in that box on a desk. We are no longer invisible to each other anymore. We smile and ask about each other’s day and our weekend plans.

Small random acts of kindness…as Mother Teresa said, “do little things with great love.” I believe it’s what moves us forward.

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17 responses

23 08 2013
Julie Ruckstuhl

Wait, I was thinking you were going to collect a fund and buy her a computer. NO SHOPPING ONLINE? That’s horrible. All right, JK. Great story Con.

23 08 2013
conniemcleod

Julie, it took me awhile to realize she’s totally unplugged. It was a wake up call.

23 08 2013
Lisa Garon Froman

This is exquisite. I love it. Ordinary acts of kindness…nothing big, just ordinary… can really be extraordinary. Thanks for doing this Connie. It helps to validate me (that blog, those thoughts) and it validates Deborah, as well.

23 08 2013
conniemcleod

Lisa, your words inspired it all. Thank you.

24 08 2013
Cathy Chester

I am not surprised you performed a random act of kindness, Connie, because you are so compassionate and giving. A small act like that can change the world, and knock down intolerance and racism at every level. One. Step. Forward. Baby. Steps. Forward.

I loved this post and I am going to see “The Butler” this weekend. I’m sure I’ll love it.

24 08 2013
conniemcleod

Thanks Cathy! Let me know what you think of it after you see it. Bring Kleenex.

24 08 2013
Lois Alter Mark

Connie, loved the movie — which I sobbed the ugly cry through — loved your post and especially loved what you did for that woman. If everyone could be inspired to perform random acts of kindness, imagine how much better the world would be. Thank you for inspiring me – always! xo

25 08 2013
conniemcleod

Lois, the movie seems even more impactful given that its 50 years since the MLK speech.

24 08 2013
Laurel (Dawn Storey)

I can’t imagine being totally unplugged and offline! Hard to fathom, for sure. What a lovely act of kindness that led to the new connection. Very nice.

25 08 2013
conniemcleod

I’m glad I was able to get it for her. She says she has to keep her grandkids from taking it!

24 08 2013
Cheryl Therrien (@geekgirlusa)

I love to ‘pay it forward’ and do it whenever I get the opportunity. This is a great story. Thanks for sharing!

24 08 2013
Kyle

It was so thoughtful of you to gift her the film. I was the recipient of a random act of kindness today and have had a smile on my face ever since.

25 08 2013
conniemcleod

Kyle, it was so effortless to do, it does inspire me to do more.

25 08 2013
Lisa_GrandmasBriefs

I look forward to seeing The Butler. I’ve heard so many great things about it.

What a wonderfully kind thing for you to do for Deborah. Small things are actually huge things. So kind.

On a side note: My sister is married to the brother of the boy in Black Stallion (Kelly Reno). My sister lives on the working ranch where Kelly learned to ride and where most of the Reno family still live (including Kelly, off and on).

25 08 2013
conniemcleod

Lisa, that is so cool! I loved that movie. And Deborah told me she has watched it a few times since she’s had it.

5 09 2013
suburbanclairvoyant

I really love this – and I’ve loved the movie The Black Stallion since I was a kid. And my name is Deborah! Ha so many reasons to live this post- top one though – the act of connection through a simple gesture of kindness. Well played. 🙂

5 09 2013
conniemcleod

Deborah, I’m so glad you liked it. Acts of kindness, so simple to do.

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